“In the beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide his emotions for so long.”—Why Men Love Bitches (via kjayne)
When a man hurts you, mentally, physically, or emotionally, he does not deserve you. He is telling you that your beauty was made for him and that he has control over it and you. No man has that power.
Our beauty was made by God to shine in this bleak and broken world. We have purpose through Him and we were created to fulfill that purpose through the strength and inspiration that He has given us. We are made perfect through Him. Don’t seek out approval when you have already been approved by He who loves everything about you. Don’t give your worth away.
Don’t ever lower your standards for someone who makes you feel less than who you really are. Don’t let the fear of being alone keep you from letting go of someone who you know isn’t right for you. Don’t let the fear of being alone influence who you give your heart to. Don’t give it to just anyone because it should be guarded. Give your heart to Christ and let Him transform it. Let Him mold it into one that resembles His. He will keep it safe. Let Him mold you into the woman you were created to be. Keep your expectations high.
Don’t search or pursue love. Let it find you. It will be that much more rewarding when it happens. Don’t force yourself to love someone - let it develop at its own rate. Love should wait for its proper time. Find yourself in Christ first. Seek first the Kingdom.
I want to be that independent don’t need you-you-or you type woman, I want to be that “i’ll pass on the shotgun” cus im driving, that woman who doesn’t need a man to make her happy nor to please her-cus the only man that she could count on is the bigman upstairs- I want to be that woman that can push her own whip thank you, that you don’t have to open doors for her cus I have arms but thanks anyways type woman, that woman who don’t give a fuck what you say about her cus what you say doesn’t matter-that woman who not only loves herself, but can love others too. that woman who can walk out the door with no make up-tore up hair and yet feel sexy about herself type woman-that woman “who got her own things thats why you lovee her”-neyo,That woman who let’s her man do his thangg cus without trust you got nothing and you know being THAT WOMAN doesn’t trip when other woman look at her man- I want to be that woman who isn’t afraid to correct you but at the same time isn’t afraid to be corrected herself - that woman who don’t need that louis, that chanel, that gucci, cus once you get that shit dirty its done haha-I want to be that woman who’ll be damned if she let you get in her way, that woman who has respect for herself but who is a strong enough boss bitch to lay a mothafuka out- that woman who isn’t afraid to test her limits-I want to be that woman people look up too…that woman who can look in the mirror and say “im proud of the woman I am”- and you know what, all of us girls can be THAT WOMAN.